It’s not that you’re “wrong” to approach men the way you have, Ashley.
You’re essentially giving him every opening to approach YOU. To continue to shower him with attention may make you appear desperate.
You already showed interests and he knows you are interested, trust me.
This could be the difference between meeting your Mr.
Right or not Online dating is frustrating to say the least.
I hear from many of my clients that it's making them crazy.
But of all the Internet dating mistakes you can make, there is one that I see over and over again.
Here's an example of an email I received from a client: Virginia, I have been online dating for 3 years on 4 different sites, and I can't get a date!
I give my number when they ask, and then they don't call 90% of the time. I am spending so many hours on the internet, or texing those guys, and I never meet any of them. I am so tired of online dating, because for me is a waste of time!
And when they do call, we chat, they say that we will meet this week, and that they will call back, but they never do. I know for a fact my client is doing everything right, her profile and photos are appealing and she's a vibrant woman with a lot of interests. My answer to her and you is that unfortunately there are men on these sites that are not looking for a serious relationship so naturally they respond differently.
With texing or e-mails it's the same thing, they ask when can we meet, and they never set a day. But even with that being the case, no matter what, you have tokeep trying and move forward.
I’ve tried going after guys I’m attracted to even if I don’t really know them.