We are nowhere near the point of having a kid (At least 3 years away, if not longer) yet we always talk about what our son or daughter will look like, how smart he/she will be and who we think he/she will look more alike.
I constantly get asked why I have always had a thing for Asian guys.
And in all honesty, it has to do purely with the fact that I have grown up with Asians for the most part, which I know may come off as odd for a few people out there.
But I feel more comfortable being around Asians due to that.
In fact, when I was in the first grade, my three friends (and let’s just add, my only friends) were all FOB kids from China and Taiwan… I will admit, I haven’t really been around the whole dating scene since I am quite an introvert and I don’t just date for the sake of having someone.
However, I have had a lot of close male friends growing up, some who came off as being my lovers even and some who came off as being like brothers to me.
Of course, the ideas listed below are more generalizations than definite qualities.
But from personal experience, this is what I’ve noticed.
Many girls growing up always want that whole tortured soul-aggressive guy who definitely isn’t gentle or caring.
However, I have yet to come across an Asian guy like that.